The Judge’s Empathetic Move

The judge’s approach, shifting to a reassuring tone, was a strategic move to create a space where Olive felt safe to express herself honestly. By emphasizing that Olive wasn’t in trouble and that her true opinions mattered, she tried to break down the barriers of formality.

Olive’s surprise at the judge’s straightforwardness reflected how uncommon it was for her to be addressed in such a manner. Children in her situation often are not directly asked for input in decisions that affect their lives—this moment allowed Olive to speak openly about her wishes regarding the adoption.

Next: In a transformative encounter, her voice is heard, unlocking a newfound strength.